so to speak

Definition

used to explain that what you are saying is not to be understood exactly as stated

In that relationship it's very much Lorna who wears the trousers, so to speak (= Lorna makes all the important decisions).

(Definition of so to speak from the Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary & Thesaurus © Cambridge University Press)

Synonyms and related words:

to worry

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