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soften sb up

phrasal verb with soften
 
/ˈsɒf.ən/
 
US  /ˈsɑː.fən/ verb [I or T]

Definition

to do things that will please someone so that they will do what you want: You're trying to soften me up so I'll drive you to Jodie's house, aren't you?Urging and persuadingCausing somebody to act
(Definition of soften sb up from the Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary & Thesaurus © Cambridge University Press)

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